Outercourse?

One of the things that i enjoy most is variety! Especially when i will go shopping for shoes. There had better be 30 different varieties to chose from! And the thing is as soon i make a pick, i will see a better loooking shoe in the next shelf. And worst of all is when i get to the house, i will wish that i had bought the pair that i left. Thats the thing about choises. As soon as you make one, you end up wishing you hadn't!

So today i've learnt a new word. Frotting! for the Swahili gay readers it is roughly translated 'Msuguano' :) This basicaly means having non-penetrative male to male sex. There are groups and communities out there that are actively advocating for this sexual encounter, and ever so passionately. I never imagined that it is actualy an art form. See this kind of sexual encounter is frowned upon in the nairobi gay community as being for people who are sexually washed out, without spunk. My curiosuty led me to loads of blogs and groups that discuss these issues.

Froting is a choice. With all the diseases out there, especially HIV, it is about time that we started thinking about sexual health! Frottin is chosing to attain sexual pleasure without penetration. Hence the term 'Outercourse'. It is a safe option for expressing one's randiness without thinking too much about diseases that can be transmitted during penetration.

This site will offer interesting reading on frotting www.heroichomosex.org. They speak passionately against anal penetrative sex, and provide facts and research that paint gruesome pictures anout anal sex (and loads of xxx pics :)

So whichever form of sexual pleasure you choose to engage in, ensure that you have all the facts strait (no pun intended!) and be safe!