Now that's a title i thought i'd never wear, seeing that i do not have matching shoes!
So i'm at bar, having my umpteenth dring, waiting to be spoted by that hunk of a man with a six pack tighter than new braids! Along comes a pal, who i've known for quite a while. Its around midnight and we are totally knackered. So he take the opportunity to confess his long standing crash for me. And then wham! Lets shag! Hmmmm! He's hot, he's telling me all the right things, i'm horny but....
He has a man! Who i know! I so would have done it if him man was a stranger that i didnt care for! So i said no, well took a raincheck and run!
I have long considered myself a proponent of chastity in the gay scene! Well now i've jumped off that high horse! It is so easy to be sleasy, given the right mix. As i get older i think i do not consider dear what i would frown upon. Maybe its cause of too many years trying to be a nice guy and getting burned.
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4 comments:
Hi Shasha,
Dont be too hard on yourself. Lots of us gay men (and women) are promiscuous. For a number that does not work. I dunno whether I would have stuck to my man but for his very belief in monogamy. Like it is a religion. But I have always believed that there is a person out there for you.
If that is what you want, yeah, you can get it. And yes, you can still stick to your principles.
I dont like sleeping with friends. The friendship kind of evaporates after that. And of course it is like I am cheating on the other who most likely is a friend too.
Kudos to you, and good luck.
gug
Sasha, I had forgotten to point you to the 'Rants and Raves of A Kenyan Gay man' blog; the post, 'Three years ago today...'
I see you have listed it on your blogroll..
Just hang on there and dont give up!
hi gug,
Thanks for visiting my blog. I was in trauma at being darted by a hooked up man. And i was tempted, and managed to eascape, this time.
Thanks for your kind words.
Sasha,
Fidelity is not a male quality and we have a wondering eye- gay or straight.
Many gay couples choose to have open relationships and this allows them to explore outside the relationship..so there would not be a need to cheat.
@gug, Good looking out
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