I met someone that I would call the perfect man for me. Taller, slightly older, slightly muscular, chiseled face, dark skinned, killer smile, great dresser, totally understands my puns, humorous, outgoing, sexy voice, a bit reserved, has more than two cents of wisdom.
I met this man in Kampla. He was here on a very short holiday from Nairobi and I’m here on business. First time I see him from a distance I know I would like to know more about him. I'm introduced to him by a common pal, but not as potential dates, thought we are headed to the hit the night lights together. He's quiet; I’m curious, and lustful. It’s been a while since I was totally attracted to someone like that. I strike the usual conversation starters. Where do you stay in Nairobi, what do you do, what brings you here? I blabber about my recent escapades in Kampala. He's responses are very to the point. I like that. My curiosity rises a notch with each passing question. At this stage there is one thing on both my heads :) I throw lustful glances at him all the time and he likes it. How do I get his number? I ask about his passions, he tells me, I offer to help him and voila, numbers are exchanged :-) The night comes to and end and we part ways.
I met him again the next night at a rugby joint, none of us really interested in the game, but we make so much noise, dancing, drinking. My slutometer hits the roof with every look that I give him! Later we enter the second level of conversing, and we exchange life stories. Is he seeing anyone? He's not sure. There is someone new, nothing written in stone. Good enough for me.
We met again the next day at a house. Perfect. Maybe I can satisfy my curiosity. I seize the opportunity and we kiss. The perfect kiss. He's lips are so soft and sweet. 15 out of 10 is the score. I get a real connection with that kiss. I am totally sold out. It’s a very intimate moment that we share that shall be etched in my memory for a lifetime.
We'll meet again when I get back to Nairobi. Is he the one? I do not know. All I know is that I will kiss him again, just to make sure. For now, I am contented with cherishing the kiss of the man of my dreams and I do not want to wake up just yet.
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5 comments:
Hi Sasha
Nice name by the way.
I'm sorry you think my comment was shallow. It's my opinion. I didn't wtite it to offend anyone.
I have no problem with gays, and I'm not a gay-basher, I just don't agree with them. I think homosexuality is a choice and I think it's a wrong choice.
I'm not going to justify my opinion, coz that would just piss you off. And I'm not going to argue with you. Let's just agree to disagree, coz there's no middle ground on this one.
I don't think it's right to attack, discriminate or victimize anyone for any reason, certainly not for being different. So I wouldn't stand by and let someone be bullied or hurt just because they're gay.
But not all differences are right either. I would be pretty pissed if my child or any loved one decided to be gay (or more to the point, believed they were gay), but i'd still love them. You can love a person without loving what they do.
Lots of people believe they were born gay, it seems you believe that too. But many people believed the world was flat, and many more people believe we used to be monkeys. I don't agree with them either.
You can't convince me, and I can't convince you, so let's just let sleeping dogs lie, shall we?
Crys
To crystal balls, It is a fact that gay ppl can't choose to be gay and it is a fact that we are born this way. I mean do heterosexuals choose to be heterosexuals?
If being gay really was a choice, why would we choose the path to be discriminated and victimized?
God bless you
/babyphat
Hi Crystal balls.
Do they shatter? I mean, you have written a very funny opinion. First you start by telling us you dont want to give it, then you go ahead and give it.
What the hell are you thinking about? What did you want to say? Did the crystal balls take over?
Sasha dude, just the best of luck.
gug
@crystal,
It is quite difficult to explain to a straight person about sexuality and the knowledge of oneself. I will not try and not change your opinion but I will give you an analogy.
You have said that most of us believe they were born gay. I will not speak about othere but i will tell you about me. I dont believe it, I know it.
Believe is based on faith, Knowledge is based on fact. For example, a christian believes christ died for them and he will come back.. That is acall of faith. A black person knows they are black(even Michael Jackson).
Iam 38 years old and if there is something I have knowledge of, it is the subject of I. I know I was born gay, I know I didnt choose to be gay. If I had a choice, I wouldnt be gay- It is a very difficultlife to be a Gay African and it is not someone would choose to be.
So your opinion must be based on lack of knowledge and it is a belief. After all how would you know and you are not gay. I am sure you were born black and straight-you didnt choose to be. Do you believe that or you know it for sure? If you answer that question honestly, then you will understand that I was born gay and black and I know it. I dont have to belive it.
@Sasha - sorry for taking your spot
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